Watching korean dramas, girls such as I custom make their own prince charmings—which I believe is absolutely reasonable. I mean a girls gotta have expectations no? I remember when I used to cover my whole binder of what I want in a guy. Not that it’s gone, they are just half-negotiable ;). Besides once I find a guy I’ve fallen for I can tell you that almost all the time they don’t fit the profile. (a girl should NEVER adapt her expectations to match someone, a girl should learn to wait) Once someone told me to drop one expectation a week until I can find someone. Sorry girl, won’t happen BUT BUT BUT amazingly I have been able to narrow it down to 4 that I am just not willing to alter.
First they HAVE to have an intimate and consistant relationship with Christ.
Secondly, they must have leadership qualities at home, at church, where ever they go. Just to add detail, I know when I see a good leader when the people following enjoy following.
Thirdly, is open. Once, one of my english teachers said “say yes to life.” It’s one the most useful advise i’ve ever received.
Lastly, is surrounded with people who know how to respect, how to love, how to share, and how to respond.